clubbing- now she enjoying herself, wait til her $$ all gone to
the drinks shopping than her liver failing her that time than she
will voice her regrets, til then it's way too late.
I've read in health magazine that a liver will only give sysptoms
of liver failure when its 70% damaged, so imagine when it does, off
goes her liver, she faces a lot of trouble in future, and even
might have a lot of illness due to the environment that she is in
currently, in toxicifying herself with aloholic drinks, passive
smoke (higher chances of lung cancer, stroke, heart attack) and
she's not doing anything to help herself
if i were you, seriously speaking, i will look towards her in the
eyes, give her 2 tight slaps, look her in the eyes when you say
this
"if you continue the lifestyle that you are currently enjoying,
very soon you will end up in hospital soon. If not when you grow
old, your money will be donated to the hospitals.
and as a ex-bf of yours, i still care very much for you, so i hope
you can wake up your idea.
Life is Short, Live it Well (instead of usual phase, enjoy it to
the max) "
with that, you ask her if she wants to enjoy a few yrs, slog a few
decades, or work hard get a good future good job than enjoy or get
into early retirement than enjoy the rest of 10yrs traveling
etc.
it's either as per above or she can spend her later prime life
(retiress age in the hospital)
just let her choose, look her in the eyes when you say it, after
you say it, let her make her own choice, and you leave her there,
you walk away go do your things, maybe go home or go work if you
are busy.
If she is in her correct state of mind, can still able to think,
she will shout your name or come running towards you saying thank
you for the care and concern or stuffs like that.
Some times you have to learn to be harsh give ppl some slaps and
have them thanking you for that.
