some how i feel that you are just another one who despite what
we advice you, despite you agreeing with us, you'll still go ahead
and ignore our advices.
I know letting go is difficult.
I know you love her a lot.
I also know that you are In love with the IDEA of loving her. with
the IMAGE of a guy waiting patiently pathetically for his love to
return to him.
Wake up.
she won't return to you just because you feel miserable without
her.
this is just like any other addiction. take smoking (no offence to
smokers) or taking drugs for example.
when you first try to quit these addictions, you'll feel uneasy,
miserable, and eventually you'll feel like you'll die without it.
Isn't it the same case here? only this is an emotional
addiction.
but hey if smokers (again no offence intended), and druggies CAN
live through the misery, the need, the cold turkey, and sucessfully
quit, SO CAN YOU!
I know it's been said before. but this is really the key.... it's
mind over matter. MIND over matter. whenever you start thinking of
her, drown yourself with some other thoughts, be it plans for
holiday, or work, just do something so that you wont think of
her.
and like all addicts, you can SAY that you are going to let go,
that you'll quit. but you'll never do so untill you DO
IT!
