Originally posted by Wolfwoof^^:
I have tis gf who's suffering from depression. When shes normal.
everything is ok..but when moodswings kicks in, she'll behave in a
strange manner. Totally different person.. she realli disappoint
me. 
I tried to tolerate her, console her &
counsel her but all i get is a cold attitude towards me. when i
have thoughts of breaking up with her, all the things she had done
for me came up in my brain... im in pain!
Then after sometime she'll be alright..loving, caring &
thoughtful. My frds advise me to give her up but i... im confuse.
Fyi, she had dump me for 7th time during our rs. Im so tired, so
sick & so low morale 
God help me.. argh, Y
heaven make fun of me..
Wait wait. Her depression. Is it
self-proclaimed or doctor diagnosed her to have depression? 2
different things, 2 different treaments. If she self-proclaimed
that she has depression, she might be trying to escape from reality
or she enjoys being sad, moody, in all those negative emotions or
simply, she likes to indulge in self-pity.
I had a gal-friend. Fun-loving, friendly and mild-tempered. She
hardly had any mood-swing and was very out-door type of girl. 2
years ago, she jumped down from her 8th-storey apartment.
Her parents, friends and even boyfriend told her she is suffering
from depression. Even the doctor said so but she was not even aware
she was suffering from depression. Not only that, she was relectant
to get treated. She felt she would be Ok but she was wrong.
She had constant feelings of sadness and tension. Her symptoms were
constant, not mood-swings like your gf's. She was no longer
out-door type, she lost interest in her usual activities/hobbies,
she was constantly complaining of tiredness, her sleeping pattern
changed as well as her appetite (she lost alot of weight). She felt
hopeless and the last straw, her suicidal thoughts claimed her
life. At age 23, she died. She lived in Jurong East.
From my experience, I felt your gf is acting or enjoys to be
'depressed' OR she has severe personality disorder. (I won't say
she is possessed) A truly depressed person will not treat u so nice
& loving suddenly and then tried to break up with u 7
times(unless u treated her badly and yet, refused to let her
go).
There are plenty of such people around. They are so self-centered
and closed-up that it's very difficult to get them to listen to
change. It could be due to their upbringing or their surroundings.
They might have been pampered by their parents that they became
self-centered. Or they might have some bad experiences that caused
them to shut themselves out from outside.
In either cases, they can only help themselves by growing up.
I advise you to leave her.
Cheers!
