Dear Wuss,
I was in a similar position to ur gf, I din ans my guy's calls,
sometimes I'd tell him I'd call but I din, I din reply to his msgs,
etc... At tt time, I was going thru a really rough patch, work
& family stress was taking a toll on me, & I was snowed
under ev. day wif a pile of work. I din feel like tokking @ the end
of the day, only wished to be left alone to read...
Eventually, I broke his heart, & there was a day he cried from
nite till the next morning. I saw his red, swollen eyes & asked
him wat happened, & he asked, "Tell me, baby, do u still love
me?"
It was then tt all the memories came flashing back, all those thgs
he did to make me smilez, all those times he tried to show me I had
his support, & I was the 1 pushing him away. I din even bother
to explain why I suddenly retreated into a shell.
Then came the hard part, how do we salvage somethg like tt? We both
tried, but we ended up trying too hard, we had quarrels, etc, but
we stuck in there. Finally, 1 day, wif him sitting behind me &
holding my waist, we tokked abt the problem, & how it seemed we
were trying too hard to make thgs all better again. It appeared
artificial.
Gd thg was, we managed to sort thgs out by tokking thgs thru, by
taking time to smell the flowers, by giving him a hugz whenever I
see him after work, thgs tt we used to do, & we found so much
joy in.
I'm lucky in tt my guy chose to reveal how hurt he was, & how
I'd broken his heart, cosh it gave me the chance to change &
make thgs better between us. And thankfully this has made the love
between us stronger.
FeowFeow
