Because theres only 1 course here that's relevant to what he
wants to study. No point in getting another course thats not what's
he planning to do in the future right? I'm not sure about army
duties, which is why I'm asking, if he does has duties etc while
staying in, how will he study? If he's 8-5, at least the duties are
done during that 8-5 time, and once he's home, he can study.
I know that last time, the army was much worse and it's relaxed
now. But it doesn't mean people still dont have their own problems.
Like how our parents always say, the last time they had it so much
worse, now all kids are spoilt. But we all know that, last time
although it was different, they had their OWN problems back then,
and even now with so much technology, etc, we STILL have problems.
Same thing.
It doesn't mean that when things get better, problems or
feelings disappear and are solved.
8-5 does not mean strictly 8-5.
I had the privilege of office hours, however, most days we did
overtime. It's a usual occurance.That is no even inclusive of the
duty officer/clerk roles that will also take up rest of the
time.
Yes, we know that everyone has problems, but sometimes, it's
impossible to solve them 100% in an organisation that prides the
collective over the individual. I'll be blunt here, but your bf's
problems are not exactly those that are life-threatening or as bad
as what I've seen in service.
While we are sympathetic, there's a limit as to what any
ordinary NSF can do with regards to such things..