i know of a couple, the gf refuse to give the bf sex because she
dont believe in premarital sex and not to mention her other
incredible flaws- but he loved her so much, so they dated for 4
years without sex.
sometimes to keep his sanity and his sexual frustration under
control, he had flings elsewhere so that he wouldnt force himself
on her. right or wrong , this is one of the ways he used to manage
his frustration.
one of the flings became serious, and then he realise he needed a
"normal" relationship with a normal girl, without all the emotional
package included.
so he left her. despite all his love. he told me "its like getting
out of jail, though i put my self there first , but 4 years . 4
years of hard labour is enough for me to appreciate the simpler
girls "
sex is important, sorry ladies, that is a simple fact. its in our
genetics and dna